It’s been a big week over here at the homestead. And by big, I mean painful and cringey and slightly embarrassing.
But I am getting ahead of myself. You should know, first, that I have been looking for a j-o-b, a real one. After nearly 7 years of on and off freelancing I’ve discovered that my propensity for delayed showers and sordid internet journeys deep into Buzzfeed’s lists is not serving me well. I want colleagues, grown up colleagues. I also want work clothes and collaboration and a clearer sense of mission. In short, I am tired of working in my underwear with little possibility for growth (except of the girth variety).
It started out swimmingly and I had an embarrassment of riches before me: branding jobs, editing jobs, marketing jobs. What I was most concerned with was which one I would pick. I spent a lot of time weighing the passion vs. money thing and came out clearly on the side of passion. I want to learn new things and be stretched. I want to work hard and spend very little time looking at the clock. I bought a snazzy new interview outfit and started to feel confident.
Then yesterday happened. Yesterday was the day I got two rejections in one day. No magazine editor job, no uber-hip branding job. One of them I really wanted, one of them I didn’t really want, but both rejections stung. Here I thought it was going so well only to find out you don’t want me. It’s just like I remember dating, only without all that fun kissing.
Then, this morning, we got the letter from the private school letting us know that Oliver didn’t get in. It’s totally fine because we weren’t going to send him there anyway (so there), but that’s not the point. The point is, they rejected my kid. My awesome, crazy-smart kid. What the fuck?
So here I am, back on my butt on the couch, in my robe if you must know, feeling like maybe this whole job thing isn’t going as swimmingly as I thought and feeling like maybe I am doing something wrong, but mostly feeling like I want to take a Xanax to quiet down the squirming mass of earthworms that have taken up residency in my chest cavity. And like I want to take a nap.
But I am not going to do that. Take the Xanax and the nap, I mean. Instead I am going to write away this buzz of humiliation by airing my rejections publicly (check), then I am going to take a walk and hone my message to the universe. That’s what my former nanny-turned-life-optimization-coach told me to do. She said I need to be specific about what I want and ask for it. And I figure it can’t hurt. I already tried the snazzy outfit and that didn’t work, so it’s time for the universe. Also, I’m considering botox.
Oh, and if you have any job leads for me, bring them on.